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互鄉(xiāng)童子


《論語注疏·述而》~64~
互鄉(xiāng)難與言,童子見,門人惑。子曰:「與其進(jìn)也,不與其退也,唯何甚!人潔己以進(jìn),與其潔也,不保其往也?!?/span>